人生本来就没有一帆风顺的。

Life is always not smooth.


但很多人总认为自己不该承受这样的苦难和挫折。

But many people always think that they should not bear such hardships and setbacks.


所以当苦难和挫折发生在这些人身上的时候，会说自己好倒霉。

You will feel that you are unlucky.when encountering the setbacks and hardships.


要么在不断的推卸责任，要么在不断的自怨自艾。

Either they think that it's not their fault, or they feel sorry for themselves.


这种方式都是不成熟的表现。

This is one kind of immature expression.


当一个人能够学会自律，能够主动的以积极的心态去承受痛苦、解决问题时，自己距离成熟越来越近了。

People with self-disciplined can suffer the pains and solve the problems with the positive attitudes, you will be more and more mature