以前总在心里偷偷许愿，希望更多的人喜欢我。

但近两年逐渐明白，别人的欣赏是要靠自己主动吸引过来的，不能强求。

如果想成为一个在大家眼里很棒的人，你就应该努力打磨自己，最终一定会在人群里散发光芒。

I used to make a wish secretly in my heart in the hope that more people like me.

But in the past two years, it has gradually become clear that the appreciation of others depends on their own initiative and can not be forced.

If you want to be a great person in everyone's eyes, you should try to polish yourself and eventually shine in the crowd.

无论当下的我们有多失望，也还是要在疲惫的生活中保持清醒，热爱你所热爱，坚持你认为该坚持的事。

星星是在瞎碰乱撞之后，才有了它的运行轨迹，而我们也肯定要去经历一些人生难题，才能遇见宇宙给我们准备好的一切。

No matter how disappointed we are, we should stay awake in the tired life, love what you love and stick to what you think we should stick to.

The star has its track only after bumping blindly, and we must experience some life problems in order to meet everything the universe has prepared for us.

觉得人还是需要有一份热爱，可以热爱某个人，也可以热爱某个东西或事。

对我来说，在倾注热爱时整个人都会变得更积极向上，会涌出无限的力量去享受这个过程，这种燃烧自己的感觉，让我觉得我人生的每一秒都没有被浪费。

I think people still need to have a love. They can love someone or something.

For me, when I pour my love, the whole person will become more positive and will gush out unlimited power to enjoy the process. This feeling of burning myself makes me feel that every second of my life has not been wasted.

你不能因为偶尔没有做好就变得不自信呀，谁都有搞砸的时候，偶尔的灰头土脸代表不了什么，不要因此就变得自卑。

也不用太羡慕别人的光芒，每个人的花期都不一样的。

偷偷告诉你，这颗转动的小星球上，没有人不会发光。

You can't become self-confident because you don't do well occasionally. Everyone can screw up. The occasional disheveled face doesn't mean anything. Don't become inferior.

Don't envy other people's light too much. Everyone's flowering period is different.

I tell you secretly that no one on this small rotating planet can't shine.

生活的「充实感」真的很重要，如果说总是觉得无聊，没事可做，那么整个人的状态就会看起来丧丧的，工作和学习都会受到影响。

只要让自己忙碌起来，哪怕苦一点累一点，起码说明自己在进步，内心总归是踏实向上的。

The "sense of fullness" of life is really important. If you always feel bored and have nothing to do, your whole state will look sad, and your work and study will be affected.

As long as you keep yourself busy, even if you are afraid of hardship and tired, at least it shows that you are making progress and your heart is always steady and upward.

自己发光比被照亮更有安全感。

也无所谓别人的光亮不亮，或者能不能照在自己身上，因为你本身就是光。

能照到是锦上添花，照不到那就自己发光发亮。

It's safer to shine than to be illuminated.

It doesn't matter whether others' light is not bright, or whether it can shine on yourself, because you are light.

It's icing on the cake to be able to shine. If you can't, you'll shine.

偷懒并没有让我多自在，反倒是把该做的事情都完成才会真正感到踏实和放松。

退一万步讲，保持上进总没什么坏处，有清晰明确的目标并为之努力远比稀里糊涂、得过且过混日子要强得多。

Being lazy doesn't make me feel more comfortable. Instead, I can really feel secure and relaxed only when I finish what I should do.

To say the least, there's no harm in staying motivated. It's much better to have a clear goal and work hard for it than to muddle along.


一个观察：让自己快乐起来的一种方式是来自于对自己的信任。

就算是盲目自信也好过时刻伤心的内耗，哪怕当下仍是一地鸡毛。

相信自己的时候，会有一股奇妙的能量，你会被托起，会把精力投入到热爱生活当中，你不再惶恐，是真的相信未来的某一刻会迎来转机。

One observation: one way to make yourself happy is to trust yourself.

Even blind self-confidence is better than sad internal friction, even if it is still a chicken feather.

When you believe in yourself, there will be a wonderful energy. You will be lifted up and put your energy into loving life. You are no longer afraid. You really believe that there will be a turning point in the future. ​​

【图源：_magua】