[视频链接]你是罕见的西格玛(西格玛=独狼)型男性的8个封面。
西格玛男性有八种迹象!这种人自信、聪明、有魅力,知道自己想要什么,有自己的想法,不管别人怎么看,都不在意外在的权威。
西格玛男性与其他男性类型不同。他们通常被称为“独狼”,西格玛人把独立和自由看得高于一切。他不喜欢被控制或不遵守规则或传统。这种类型的人制定自己的规则,创造自己的道路。
你是男性中最罕见的西格玛类型的8个标志
你一定对男性社会等级制度很熟悉。金字塔型,最上面的阿尔法型,他们非常自信,充满动力,受到社会关注。第二名是贝塔类型。他们敏感,没有攻击性。以下是Delta(德尔塔)类型。他们维持着社会的正常运转。接下来是伽玛(gamma)类型。他们不喜欢女性,也不喜欢男性。金字塔下面是欧米茄(Omega)。没有野心,但很有趣。现在,还有另一种。他们不符合任何传统类型。他们是西格玛。这些人被认为是最罕见的,让我告诉你你是否是他们中的一员。
第一,你喜欢一个人呆着
西格玛男性是天生的“独狼”,喜欢独处,不需要从别人身上体验完整。如果你属于这种类型,你可以独立完成工作,所以你不需要和别人一起工作,也不需要和别人一起享受成功和快乐。你喜欢这样做。一个人的时候,你可以安静下来,把事情想清楚。当然,你也知道朋友的重要性,但你不通过他们来定义自己的身份和价值。因为你挑剔,社交圈很小。
第二,你喜欢安静,沉思。
西格玛男性典型地喜欢安静、思考型地在做出决定之前观察环境。你并不害羞,比起闲聊,你更喜欢听。和聊天的人在一起的时候,因为你的这种性格,好像不太擅长社交。事实上,你绝不是隐藏内心的人。而是放在别人很难发现的地方。大卫亚设,Northern Exposure,信仰)如果有人没有被邀请就想接近你,他们可能会冷淡甚至敌意。他们知道试图闯入你心里的禁令是徒劳的。
第三,你按照自己的意志行事
西格玛类型的人不在乎别人怎么想。但这并不意味着可以积极无视别人的意见。但是你的行为和价值取向是由内在驱动的,而不是外在的压力。(伯纳德肖,)你是自己命运的主人。当然,你也可以有榜样或导师,但没有人是完美的,他们的想法和行为方式也不一定适合你。(约翰f肯尼迪,教育)这种态度使你对自己的信仰和能力充满信心。
第四,你是独立的。
西格玛男性非常独立,可以自给自足。没有别人的帮助也能照顾好自己。你可以利用磁性、客观、洞察力和自己的内在资源来应对日常生活的挑战。你不需要别人肯定你的价值,也不需要外界的认可,你自己也会感觉好一些。
第五,你经常被认为是神秘的。
西格玛男性通常有男性没有的光环。如果你是他们中的一员,别人通常认为你很神秘。这不是因为你不告诉别人你是谁。因为有很多别人看不到的东西。人们经常说“不一样”,就像从远处可以感受到你的复杂性和个性一样。(伯纳德肖,)别人甚至可能误以为你是冷幕、超然的。你是独一无二的,不管是你的喜好还是看待世界的方式。与其盲目追求潮流和时尚,你更喜欢按照自己的节奏前进。
第六,你很灵活,能适应变化
我们无法预测未来。作为西格玛类型的男人,你拥抱变化,工作。选择适应发生在你身上的一切,总的来说,你对生活的态度很敏捷。(萧伯纳,生活)与其改变不能改变的东西,不如使用创造性的方案来适应新的情况。你不能让环境决定你如何生活。
第七,你有隐藏的权威。
也许西格玛男性最突出的特点之一是无需行使权威就能领导他人。不管你是老板还是下属,你总能得到尊重和尊重。因为你的领导能力不是通过命令,而是通过榜样传达的。
你可以融入集体或独立工作。你敢做自己的事,说出自己的想法,因为你不取悦任何人,你不需要接受。
八、你不轻易判断对错
西格玛男性徘徊在其他文化及其规则的边缘,所以并不总是接受大多数人的对错。这意味着你总是怀疑一些已知的规则,怀疑它们是否值得遵守,不在乎打破这些规则。因为我不担心能不能融入集团,所以不太可能掉进集团思维的陷阱。我知道团体事故不是真的相信,而是基于别人的想法。事实上,你不怕质疑道德观念,毫无理由地反抗压迫人的规则。本质上,你质疑既定的信念,拒绝外界的压力,比如权威。你可能不总是对的,但至少你是为自己着想的。
西格玛男性独特而罕见。总之,他们有自己的世界。他们特别的性格使他们成为最有魅力的男人之一。如果你发现你有这些特征,你很可能成为西格玛类型的人。尽管如此,请记住,这只是认识的构建。目的是帮助你更好地了解自己,更好地与别人互动。
英语:
8 signs you are a sigma male,the rarest of all men
you ' re probably familiar with the classic male socio sexual hierarchy。
it ' s typically thought of as a pyramid。
At the top are the alphas,thos
e super confident, driven, and assertive men who are incredibly social and thrive on attention.The betas are the nice guys who are more sensitive and less aggressive.
Then, there’s the deltas, the average guys who keep society running smoothly.
Next come the gammas who aren’t as successful with women and not liked quite as much by other men.
And at the bottom of the pyramid are the omegas, the fun-loving but non-aspirational individuals.
Now, there is another type of guy; the sigma male who doesn't fit into any of the traditional male archetypes, and these men are considered the rarest type.
Here’s how to tell if you’re one of them.
Number 1 - You're Comfortable Being Alone
A sigma male is a lone wolf by nature who's more than happy with his solitude and doesn't need another person to feel complete.
If you belong to this group of men, you simply don't need to be around other people to be happy or successful because you have no problem going solo and doing things on your own.
In fact, you prefer it that way; so you can think things through and make use of the deep silence in your headspace.
Of course, you know that friends are important, but they don't define your identity or self-worth.
Your social circle is small since you're very selective about who gets into it.
Number 2 - You Are Quiet and Contemplative
Sigma males are typically quiet and contemplative, which means you like to observe your surroundings before deciding what to do next.
You're not necessarily shy, but you're likely to be more of a listener than a talker.
And because of this general reserve, your social skills may be a bit rusty, especially when confronted with people who want to chat constantly.
You're definitely not one to wear your heart on your sleeve; instead, you keep it tucked safely inside where no one else can see it.
People who try to get close to you without being invited, may find themselves met with cool reserve or even hostility, as they try in vain to break into the inner sanctum of your mind.
Number 3 - You're Driven by Your Own Internal Compass
If you're a sigma male, you don't care about what other people think.
It's not that you actively ignore them; but rather that your actions and values are driven by your own internal compass, and not external
forces such as peer pressure.
You are the master of your own fate.
Sure, you may have role models or mentors, but you realize that no one is perfect and that their way is not necessarily the best way for you.
And this attitude makes you feel confident in yourself and your abilities.
Number 4 - You're Independent and Self Reliant
As a Sigma male, you’re very independent and self-sufficient.
You can take care of yourself without anyone else's help.
With an ability for introspection, objectivity, and perception, you use your internal resources to deal with the challenges of daily life.
You simply don't need other people to tell you that you have value as a human being.
And you certainly don't need approval from others or seek validation from outside sources to feel good about yourself or your choices.
Number 5 - You're Often Seen as Mysterious and Enigmatic
Sigma males have an aura about them that the average man does not possess.
And if you’re a sigma, others often see as mysterious or enigmatic.
It's not that you don't let on who you are; it's just that there’s a lot more to you than meets the eye.
People often comment that there's something "different" about you as if they can sense your innate complexity and individuality even from a distance.
Others may even mistake you for being aloof and detached.
This is because you are unique, both in your tastes and how you see the world.
Instead of blindly following trends and fads, you choose to march to the beat of your own drum.
Number 6 - You Are Flexible and Adapt to Change Easily
While it's difficult to know what the future holds, as a sigma male, you embrace change and choose to adapt to whatever comes your
way.
You have a very flexible approach to life in general.
Instead of letting change stop you from doing what you want, you’re willing to get creative with solutions and adapt to new situations with ease.
You don't let current circumstances dictate how your life unfolds.
Number 7 - You Can Lead Without Exerting Authority
Perhaps one of the most defining characteristics of Sigma males is that they can lead without exerting authority.
Whether you're the boss or a subordinate, you are always respected and admired.
And that's because your leadership is expressed through example rather than command.
You can be part of a group while also operating independently of it.
You aren't afraid to do your own thing and speak your mind because you have no desire to please or appease others for acceptance.
Number 8 - You Are Morally Gray
Sigma males tend to wander the outskirts of civilization and its rules, so they don't always fit into the good/bad binary that most
people accept unquestioningly.
This means you often wonder if some perceived rule is actually worth following, and you don't shy away from bending or even breaking
that rule.
Since you're not concerned about fitting in, you're less likely to fall into the trap of group-think, where opinions are based on what
everyone else thinks, rather than what you actually believe.
As a matter of fact, you're not afraid to question society's mores and push back against rules that serve to hold others down for no
good reason.
Essentially, you question established beliefs and refuse to buckle under pressure from outside sources like authority figures.
You may not always be right, but at least you're thinking for yourself.
Sigma males are rare, unique, and balanced.
In short, the Sigma male is on his own level.
And the combination of their particular characteristics definitely makes them the most intriguing type of men.
If you recognize these traits in yourself, there’s a good chance that you are a sigma male.
That being said, it’s important to remember that the socio sexual hierarchy is merely an ideological construct.
It is designed to help one better understand themselves, their role in dominance hierarchies, and their interactions with others.
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