There is a topic on Douban: at what moment did you realize that there was no one around you and you could only rely on yourself?

Netizens shared their experiences in the message area.

Some people say: in the year of Beipiao, I was cheated out of most of my savings because of renting a house, and I only had less than 300 yuan left.

豆瓣上有个话题：你是在哪一瞬间，意识到身边无人可依，只能靠自己？

网友在留言区分享了自己的经历。

有人说：北漂的那一年，因为租房子被骗走了大部分积蓄，全身上下只剩不到300块钱。

I can only live in a crowded and dark basement. It's difficult to turn over.

During that time, I worked as a part-time waiter, handed out leaflets, ate only one steamed stuffed bun every day, and carried it so hard for a month.

At the most difficult time, I thought about talking to my parents, but when I thought that they would be so worried that they couldn't sleep, I finally decided to report only good news but not bad news.

只能住在拥挤、昏暗的地下室，连翻个身都困难。

那段时间，我兼职过服务员，发过传单，每天只吃一个包子，就这么硬扛了一个月。

最难的时候，也曾想过向父母开口，但一想到他们会操心得睡不着觉，最终还是决定只报喜不报忧。

Some people say: my husband works more than 1000 kilometers away from home, and I take two children at home alone.

One morning, Dabao had a fever and Xiaobao was crying. There was no one around to help.

I don't trust to leave Xiaobao at home. I can only run to the town hospital with Dabao on my back and Xiaobao in my arms.

有人说：老公在离家1000多公里的地方工作，我一个人在家里带两个孩子。

有天凌晨，大宝发烧了，小宝也哭闹不止，身边一个可以搭把手的人都没有。

我不放心把小宝丢在家里，只能一边背着大宝，一边抱着小宝，往镇上医院跑。

It was a few degrees below zero, and the cold wind made my whole face ache.

The next day my husband called. I resisted my grievance and told him that everything was fine at home.

Others said: I was unfortunately laid off by the company last year because of the recession in the industry.

那是零下几度的天气，冷风刮得我整个脸都生疼。

第二天老公打来电话，我忍住了委屈，云淡风轻地告诉他：家里一切都好。

还有人说：去年因为行业不景气，我不幸被公司裁员了。

At that time, my wife was pregnant. After knowing the news, I didn't dare to tell her at all.

I can only go out on time every day and pretend to go to work normally.

In fact, I found a park far from home and stayed all day.

That week, I was frantically refreshing the recruitment website every day. Whenever there was a bit of hope, I submitted my resume to them.

那段时间老婆正怀着孕，知道这个消息后，我完全不敢告诉她。

只能每天准时出门，假装正常上班。

实际上，找了一个距离家里比较远的公园，一待就是一整天。

那一周，我每天都在疯狂地刷新招聘网站，但凡有点希望的岗位，我都给他们投了简历。

I have heard a saying: "on the road of life, it is lucky to have branches to rely on, and the strength to carry is the foundation."

When we were young, we always relied on the care of the people around us. Even if the sky fell, someone carried it for ourselves.

As you get older, your parents will get older, your friends will be separated, and your friends will have their own abilities.

It's raining heavily in the world. No one can carry more for you.

No matter how much bitterness, it can only be digested silently; No matter how hard and tired, you can only carry it alone.

Only a person who has experienced setbacks can understand that the rainbow after strength is the most beautiful scenery.

听过一句话：“人生路上，风雨飘摇，有枝可依是幸运，有力可扛才是底气。”

年少时，我们总是仰仗着身边人的照顾，就算天塌下来，也有人替自己扛着。

随着年岁渐长，父母会渐渐老去，好友会逐渐离散，伴侣也有自己的力不从心。

世间大雨滂沱，没人能为你背负更多。

再多的辛酸，也只能默默消化；再苦再累，也只能独自硬扛。

只有一个人经历过挫折的磨练，才懂得坚强后的彩虹，才是最美丽的风景。